Its Assignment Time~

Assignment time~
its the time that I feel like wants to KILL SOMEONE!!!
Please lah please... can you guys be a little bit more independent??
Cant you just TRY, ATLEAST TRY to find the solution for every problem we encounter??
Don't count everything on me... Im not GOD I cant do everything at one time!
you're not a baby so please don't expect me to spoon-feed you!


I KNOW I DESERVE THIS... RIGHT FROM THE MOMENT I AGREE TO BE IN SAME GROUP WITH YOU GUYS. BUNCH OF *tuuttttt* KIDS...
(Sorry for being rude I'm just expressing my emo-ness...)

GROW UP NOW PLEASE!!

Random#4 - what an annoying week!!

Firstly I should be happy bacause I brought new shoes and learn new subject -financial management, which alotsss of ppl complaint that this subject is hell-ly hard. Hmm.. and today I had my first lecture class for Fin.mngmt... seems interesting! Its seems to be highly related with all the stocks and ratio... Im wondering can I apply this directly to buy stocks? heh heh..

Ok.. back to topic,
I am so frussssss!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Why???????

6 reasons behind (atleast), let's see what is it :

1. Text book
   Frus level: *
   Since its new sem, and I will definitely need to find new text book, and I have some requirement for the text  book to ensure I get the best deal! My requirement is:
 - second hand
 - match with lecturer's book
 - photocopy ( since I love to draw n write n sketch on the book!)
omg.... hard to find!

2. Prezzie
    Frus level: **
   Babe is having her 21st bday...
  and we are gear up to think of a prezzie for her... :) its her 21st...
  so... I search and browse and finds and look around and scratch my head... and finally like everyone decided....finally.. (if u read    this, means all of us have squizze our brain and finally.. agree to buy the ___ ) :) hope you like it.. Happy 21st  sweet girl!

3. IVSC
  Frus level: *****
  Contact campus's PIC... alright... it's actually not a big problem. What's the real problem is, WHY YOU NOT SAY EARLY??? when there's new info need to be update with the PIC of campus, Everyday (perhaps abit exaggerates) I need to update update update them! And you know... day by day... the respond is lesser... lesser and shorter... and finally went missing!! Haih... I guess their OS is: No Problem..OK....Alright...Huh...Not yet finish?... Still got?... What else? ...Beybey... (missing)..
*sigh*
and also many... i would say useless and unhelpful activities going on...like flash mob ( Im forced to dance! and practice every week!) Funding ( do we really get money from the public? ) and promoting in station one ( dun think the uncle aunty and some family will interested in this.. ) ...
Wasting my time!! Feel like quiting but... I know I need to keep to my promise... D: Now I know joining activities in Uni is so... like helping others to reach their target! [perhaps I learn things too... but its time consuming so according to time is money principle its not worth it and I dun get paid too!]

4. Frenemy
  Frus level: ***
 Ok... thing gets complicated when you reach Uni level... expecially frendship..
 But luckily.. I always have very accurate intuition about a person.. like I can feel his/her kindness level. and I know that there's someone around me failed in this criteria... but I'll just keep silence.. as you know..sometimes telling a friend about your feeling towards another friend.. can be dangerous. *evil eyes*

5. (refer to IVSC) IVSC-2
  Frus level: *****
  I know many of them are not going back home on weekend cuz their hometown is at other state..
  and so, some of their activites is on saturday and sunday! No no no... I admit Im a mummy girl and I need to go home every weekend *innocent*.. I skipped some of the activities that are on weekend.. but this week... seriously frus level reached the MAXXXX!!! My timetable for this sem occupy 4 days only... monday to thursday and Im so happy with it, this means Im going back home on thursday after class and coming cyber on monday.. but this week.. first week of new sem I am so upset...
Tuesday- flash mob (skipped thk God) , wednesday - meeting, thursday- workshop ( skipped thk God), Saturday - Seri Kembangan funding, Sunday- Station One promo (skipped thk God)..
And... IF IM GOING TO ALL OF THIS.. mom need to fetch me from cyber on thursday night and fetch me back to cyber on saturday morning, and I'll nid to go back by bus at 3 pm and still hoping Im not late for babe's 21st party (waiting bus in putrajaya is killing, 1 hour min.- 3 hours max) and fetch me back to cyber on monday. Mom is so gonna kill me! However... Still irritates my head now on how to go back cyber on sat morning...

6. Library's super 'EFFICIENT' staff
 frus level: *****
I dint get my notes printed as I dun have printer in cyber and tat's why Im going home every weekend to print my notes. and there are 2 subjects nvr upload the lecture notes before Im going back cyber.
So today... I borrow notes from A.K to photocopy d notes .. and Im going library half hour earlier b4 the class start... and you know what?? I queue for half hour.. and there were less than 10 person infront of me that time... and guess what... after half hour I still havent get mine done yet... I am so damn angry due to the EFFECTIVENESS and EFFICIENCY of that malay lady... She can count every piece of paper s.l.o.w... i mean real slow, literally. and after I passed my notes to ask her to print, she put it aside...then people behind me pass her his papers and that super-clever lady processed his first! I was... SO MADDD SO INSANE!! Im already late for class and then she still dare to ignore me! and then I realize my hand is shaking even after I entered class.. DUE TO ANGER!!

（5* is full marks)

OK.... Now I realised how many troubles I confronted this week...
This post is to release my pek-chek-ness.

Please grant me a wonderful thursday tomorrow and solve all my problem..
Thank you..

 
 

咎由自取

其实很多事情
都是咎由自取的
早知如今何必当初呢？

早知付出多一点就可以拿到更好的成绩
早知主动点就不会错过生命中的挚爱而遗憾终身
早知不抽烟就不会生病...

其实我们早知，却任由情况恶化而不去改善/无动于衷，
是因为自己自以为是的以为，还有时间，还有机会的，
就不去做任何行动，
所以结果是怎样，是不是一个人必须要附上很大的责任呢？

有时某人发生了某些事，
我会想，
某人你早知_何必_呢？
不能怪别人啊！
为何还要抱怨连连呢？？
种因必得果啊！

对于我自己，
同样的，
审判的想法也是丝毫不留情的，
上课时打瞌睡，导致有些功课不会做，好吧我付出多几倍的时间温习。
身体越来越HUGE，导致很多衣服穿不下，好吧！要吃的话不要想身材要身材的话不要想吃！
生活圈子越来越小，导致眼界越来越窄，好吧！检讨自己！要不努力主动认识人要不继续呆在自己的小小世界！

不认为现在的我过得很好，我不符合心中的要求。

无论是外表，能力，EQ，生活圈子，还有（非常）很大的进步空间，
如果以后要达到目标，
若现在的情况过多5年，
会更难达到了。

在书本读过这样的内容：如果你要成功，周围就要有成功的朋友，相反地，如果你要成为*vulgar words*，请让*vulgar words*们围绕着你！

简单的说一句，近墨者黑！

再继续下去，
XXX你真的会咎由自取！！！！
(I'm saying this to myself.)

孤单

有时就算朋友家人都在身边，

还是不免会感到孤单。

比如说，

很多时候，在做着一些事情时，会遇到瓶颈，然后会发现到，

爸爸妈妈不能帮到你，

朋友也不能帮到你，又或者...袖手旁观(?)，

唯一的办法只有靠自己。

这时会有一种“顶天立地我不需要别人我也可以做到的”自信，

但同时却感到“好孤单原来没有一个人可以帮我”的悲哀。

那是来自我心底里的自负和自怜在作祟。

PS：我不喜欢最近我在做的一件事（虽然之前很拼命的认为必须做一些什么所以选了此事），我应该放弃吗？突然发觉，这不是我以后会做/要做的..之前的想法是要认识更多人和打发时间...但现在觉得太annoying了！应该半途而弃还是死死也要做完它呢？？

真烦恼。

21件25歲要開始做的事

勇敢追夢

1. 列出你人生中非做不可的「待辦事項」，開始一項項完成。

2. 嘗試一個人出國旅行，跟自己對話，照顧自己，傾聽心裡的聲音。

3. 至少進一次大公司，不一定是規模大的企業，而是在各行各業中，口碑和風評領先的公司。因為大公司的福利以及制度較完善，並可趁機累積相關工作資歷，以及人脈關係。也許中年之後，你會想要創業，資金、經驗和資源外，人脈是不可或缺的幫手。

4. 好好品嘗一次跌到谷底的感受。把自己逼到牆角時，往往是把人生看得最清楚的時候；唯有越過層層荊棘，才可能超越自我。

5. 找個時間做件善事，例如加入義工行列，在協助、服務其他人的同時，你會對目前所擁有的一切更加滿足。

財富自由

6. 對自己好好進行一次全盤財務診斷。問自己：真正讓你幸福的生活方式是什麼？有人喜歡住鄉下，有人卻想要住豪宅，想在短時間創造高財富，就必須承擔更高的風險。

7. 再問自己理想的生活方式，需要準備多少錢才夠？扣除現有資產存量，還需要準備多少？設定好目標後，才開始討論合適的投資工具。

8. 切勿「負債投資」；若有負債，應先擬定償還計劃，先理債、再理財。

9. 一切都得從「存錢」做起，否則都是空談。

10. 想要存錢，先從「記帳」開始。這是基本功，只要堵住不經意花掉的金錢，一定可以慢慢累積出投資的本金。

11. 辛苦存錢的同時，一定要慎防財務漏洞，比如人云亦云地亂買股票、辦房貸，甚至亂刷卡或用現金卡借錢。其中聽明牌買股票往往被套在高點；房貸利率的差別往往一年達數萬元；信用卡是很多現代人的理財盲點，也是現代人的財務殺手，試想你有錢放在銀行，拿到的是少少的利息，當這些錢被銀行經由信用卡或現金卡借出去，利差達10倍以上，這樣的錢當然不能借來用。

12. 既然理財是門學問，平時就應該做功課，無論從總體經濟，到世界趨勢，都應該有所涉獵。不要一昧相信「理財專家」或「股票名師」會替你帶來一夕致富的好運。

13. 最後，想要獲得財富自由，成為理想中的有錢人，就要有「成功致富」的信心。幾乎所有成功的投資人，都有一套自己的投資觀念，自律且具耐心，最重要的是，他們目標明確。

掌握未來

14. 要自由地揮灑未來，第一件要做的事是──建立生活的秩序。有秩序的人，通常能夠成就你意想不到的事。讓其他事情可以順利完成，便有更多時間享受「自由」。

15. 改變，從專心工作開始。面對你正在做的事，集中注意力，才能加快完成速度。

16. 養成固定時間睡覺和起床。不要再用種種理由佔用睡覺的寶貴時間，不要讓事情一拖再拖，這樣你將有更多時間補足精力。

17. 正確的飲食、運動習慣能讓身體保持清醒，沒有負擔。應該讓身體在35歲以前，都保持在最佳狀態。

18. 只有不斷學習才能保證競爭力。管理大師彼得‧杜拉克（PeterF.Drucker）說，你的知識和經驗，都是你的新財富。懂得學習，一半靠好奇心，一半靠自律。杜拉克即使再忙，每天也會擠出3～5小時讀書，唯有保持學習的自律，才能獲得一生受用的知識財富。

19. 在日常生活中，實踐「懶」人的智慧，用最少時間，達到最佳目的，且運用更舒適輕鬆的方法。例如：妥善保存隨手買的小配件，收納在同一個地方，要使用的時候就不會找不到。發展自己的懶人智慧，當事情忙亂起來，就不會一團糟，生活也能更有品質。

20. 學會說不。「拒絕」是一門藝術，做個心胸開闊、進退有禮的人，同時也要有自己的原則，才能過得自在、開心。

21. 盡可能讓生活豐富。嘗試著用一個圓圈，平分成6個部份，在每個部份寫上家庭、工作、經濟狀況、精神追求、健康、智慧，提醒自己人生不是只有工作的上班時間，與下班後的日常生活；盡可能讓自己的每個面向不斷拓展、延伸。

35歲前，學會讓自己輕鬆地應對一切，你就可以享受成功、自由的人生。