“If a man is really into you, nothing will stop him from being with you - including a fear of intimacy.”
―
Greg Behrendt
Zero sign from him.
That's why you should give up, stupid women!
because
“Always be classy. Never be crazy.”
―
Greg Behrendt,
He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys
and,
“Alone also means available for someone outstanding.”
―
Greg Behrendt,
It's Called a Breakup Because It's Broken: The Smart Girl's Break-Up Buddy
:-)
Sunday, December 16, 2012
Saturday, December 8, 2012
Time
Imagine there is a bank account that credits your account each morning with $86,400. It carries over no balance from day to day.
Every evening the bank deletes whatever part of the balance you failed to use during the day. What would you do? Draw out every cent, of course?
Each of us has such a bank. It's name is TIME.
Every morning, it credits you with 86,400 seconds.
Every night it writes off aslost, whatever of this you have failed to invest to a good purpose.
我想，
时间是唯一一件上帝赐给人们最公平的东西了吧！
不论一个人多漂亮，多有钱，多聪明，
终究都会抵不过时间的摧残，
慢慢地老去，然后面对无尽的死亡。
The problem is, how to make use of the time,
如何在有限的时间内，活得精彩，活得快乐自在，和不带走一丝遗憾。
Every evening the bank deletes whatever part of the balance you failed to use during the day. What would you do? Draw out every cent, of course?
Each of us has such a bank. It's name is TIME.
Every morning, it credits you with 86,400 seconds.
Every night it writes off aslost, whatever of this you have failed to invest to a good purpose.
It carries over no balance. It allows no over draft. Each day it opens a new account for you. Each night it burns the remains of the day.
If you fail to use the day's deposits, the loss is yours. There is no drawing against "tomorrow."
You must live in the present on today's deposits. Invest it so as to get from it the utmost in health, happiness and success!
The clock is running!! Make the most of today.
If you fail to use the day's deposits, the loss is yours. There is no drawing against "tomorrow."
You must live in the present on today's deposits. Invest it so as to get from it the utmost in health, happiness and success!
The clock is running!! Make the most of today.
我想，
时间是唯一一件上帝赐给人们最公平的东西了吧！
不论一个人多漂亮，多有钱，多聪明，
终究都会抵不过时间的摧残，
慢慢地老去，然后面对无尽的死亡。
The problem is, how to make use of the time,
如何在有限的时间内，活得精彩，活得快乐自在，和不带走一丝遗憾。
Wednesday, November 21, 2012
開不了口
You just shared this song of Jay Chou,
開不了口.
I wonder is this referring to your thought?
If is so...
I wonder who is her..
This song suits me too,
我們同是天涯淪落人嗎？
才離開沒多久就開始擔心
今天的妳過的好不好
整個畫面都是妳 想妳想到睡不著
嘴嘟嘟那可愛的模樣
還有在妳身上香香的味道
我的快樂 是妳想一想的微笑
＊沒有妳在 我有多難熬
〔沒有妳在 我有多難熬多煩惱〕
沒有妳煩 我有多煩惱
〔沒有妳煩 我有多煩惱多難熬〕
穿過雲層 我試著努力向妳奔跑
愛才送到 妳卻已在別人懷抱
＃就是開不了口讓她知道
我一定會呵護著妳也逗妳笑
妳對我有多重要 我後悔沒讓妳知道
安靜的聽妳撒嬌 看妳睡著一直到老
＋就是開不了口讓她知道
就是那麼簡單幾句我辦不到
整顆心懸在半空 我只能夠遠遠看著
這些我都做得到 但那個人已經不是我
開不了口.
I wonder is this referring to your thought?
If is so...
I wonder who is her..
This song suits me too,
我們同是天涯淪落人嗎？
才離開沒多久就開始擔心
今天的妳過的好不好
整個畫面都是妳 想妳想到睡不著
嘴嘟嘟那可愛的模樣
還有在妳身上香香的味道
我的快樂 是妳想一想的微笑
＊沒有妳在 我有多難熬
〔沒有妳在 我有多難熬多煩惱〕
沒有妳煩 我有多煩惱
〔沒有妳煩 我有多煩惱多難熬〕
穿過雲層 我試著努力向妳奔跑
愛才送到 妳卻已在別人懷抱
＃就是開不了口讓她知道
我一定會呵護著妳也逗妳笑
妳對我有多重要 我後悔沒讓妳知道
安靜的聽妳撒嬌 看妳睡著一直到老
＋就是開不了口讓她知道
就是那麼簡單幾句我辦不到
整顆心懸在半空 我只能夠遠遠看著
這些我都做得到 但那個人已經不是我
如果給我一個期限去忘記你
我不知道那個期限會是多久。
Thursday, November 15, 2012
做自己
我一定可以做自己
最真實的自己
就算會受傷
也好過披著面具的我
被約束的感覺
很辛苦
世界末日快來了
再這樣下去
只會留下遺憾
I don't care what others think!
I AM ME!!
Tuesday, November 13, 2012
November #2
Last month is as interesting as roller coaster,
My mood was up and down, due to some events/ things I've encounter..
So i've join orientation again,
it's my second time joining.
and this time i was so lucky,
so lucky to got my wish fulfilled..
I've never dream of it happening! :)
Anyway, every good thing will eventually come to an end.
And I have to cope with it... I never wanted it to end..
and still trying my best to deal with it now.. :/
and here it comes, NOVEMBER!
now its almost mid of nov,
so fast and the legendary date, 21/12/2012 is getting nearer and nearer..
If the world is going to end on that day,
I have only one wish,
which is to .... him.
haha!
Its now week 4 of the semester,
time flies and so much assignments and tutorials piling up waiting for me..
however im still in a state of day dream..
AHHHHHHHHH
deep in my heart I've never wanted to wake up from this wonderful dream..
but its almost one month now!
I should not let myself 沉浸 in this cloud 9 and waiting for miracle to happen..
been to the disabled orphanage house and old folks home last sunday..
feel like grew up a lil bit and felt that im soo lucky enough to be born normal..
I hope i can do something to them..
like become a volunteer in orphanage house.. when can i realize this?
..
.....
........
been missing my kuk fass' so much!!!
haih its been a loooong loooooong time since our gathering..
EVERYTHING IS GONNA BE VERY VERY GOOD AND WONDERFUL AND EXCELLENT AND FABULOUS TOMORROW!!!!
YEAHH CHEEEEEERRRS!! :D
Thursday, October 11, 2012
Red- Taylor Swift
Well Taylor Swift has never failed me,
Every time I listen to her new released album and I'll undoubtedly get goosebumps and addicted to her songs ,
recently her new album - Red is released.
and this song is just amazing.
Enjoy! :))
Every time I listen to her new released album and I'll undoubtedly get goosebumps and addicted to her songs ,
recently her new album - Red is released.
and this song is just amazing.
Enjoy! :))
8/10/2012
8/10 is a monday,
Now im on a holiday and its getting boring-er and I always wonder why I'm sooo looking forward to holiday during school day and I actually have tons of plan to do for this wonderful holiday but it always ends up I wanna go back school!! and vice versa I know I will wish for holiday to come if I've started new sem.
人真是好贱啊啊啊!!
anyway,
On that day I went to meet my friend, Joyce and Corine at MidValley,
and the plan of the day is simple,
after I met them they will bring me to Mahsa College and tour me around in their campus,
and then we will visit pasar malam!!!
Its been really a while since my last visit to pasar malam (a.k.a night market),
so everything went well,
Joyce also intro me her friend, 4 nice young lady and young men. :)
We had our dinner @ SS2 喂食街，
I ate 四川担担面 for dinner, and I've always purposely pronounce it as 蛋蛋面 muahahaha
and all of us brought a shirt of same design,
which is the design of British flag ( its seems to be the hottest trend in this season),
and we walked and talked and browsed around for nice food,
When the time is around 8.15 pm we planned to head back, since we had finished explore every stall there,
and we are going to the bus stop to wait for the bus,
I was enjoying the taiwan hot dog in my hand while walking,
suddenly I fell down into a huge longkang that the height is almost same as me and my mind went blank,
it wasn't pain at the beginning the first few minutes and all I was thinking is I have to get back up,
with the help of my friend I am finally got back up,
and of course it shocked everyone that I fell into the big drain suddenly, everyone as in random people that were waiting for bus too.
And everyone kept asking me whether I'm ok or not, and I am actually fine,
only experienced some minor wounds and bruises,
on the bus everyone was really worried and I can see that,
I actually feel a bit guilty that like I spoiled the atmosphere -.- haha.
I get to experienced how does it feel to fell into the drain!!
I wonder if someone thinner fell and it would be less hurt cuz if she/he is thin so their size will not fit the long kang and there will be less chance that they will excoriate with the surface of long kang.
The moral of the story:
Never walk while eat or never eat while walk,
especially in the dark street,
and I had experienced some losses, which included half-eaten taiwan hotdog 台湾香肠 dropped into the drain.
I can be a 70 years old grandma though,
Halleluyah I'm alright. :)
Now im on a holiday and its getting boring-er and I always wonder why I'm sooo looking forward to holiday during school day and I actually have tons of plan to do for this wonderful holiday but it always ends up I wanna go back school!! and vice versa I know I will wish for holiday to come if I've started new sem.
人真是好贱啊啊啊!!
anyway,
On that day I went to meet my friend, Joyce and Corine at MidValley,
and the plan of the day is simple,
after I met them they will bring me to Mahsa College and tour me around in their campus,
and then we will visit pasar malam!!!
Its been really a while since my last visit to pasar malam (a.k.a night market),
so everything went well,
Joyce also intro me her friend, 4 nice young lady and young men. :)
We had our dinner @ SS2 喂食街，
I ate 四川担担面 for dinner, and I've always purposely pronounce it as 蛋蛋面 muahahaha
and all of us brought a shirt of same design,
which is the design of British flag ( its seems to be the hottest trend in this season),
and we walked and talked and browsed around for nice food,
When the time is around 8.15 pm we planned to head back, since we had finished explore every stall there,
and we are going to the bus stop to wait for the bus,
I was enjoying the taiwan hot dog in my hand while walking,
suddenly I fell down into a huge longkang that the height is almost same as me and my mind went blank,
it wasn't pain at the beginning the first few minutes and all I was thinking is I have to get back up,
with the help of my friend I am finally got back up,
and of course it shocked everyone that I fell into the big drain suddenly, everyone as in random people that were waiting for bus too.
And everyone kept asking me whether I'm ok or not, and I am actually fine,
only experienced some minor wounds and bruises,
on the bus everyone was really worried and I can see that,
I actually feel a bit guilty that like I spoiled the atmosphere -.- haha.
I get to experienced how does it feel to fell into the drain!!
I wonder if someone thinner fell and it would be less hurt cuz if she/he is thin so their size will not fit the long kang and there will be less chance that they will excoriate with the surface of long kang.
The moral of the story:
Never walk while eat or never eat while walk,
especially in the dark street,
and I had experienced some losses, which included half-eaten taiwan hotdog 台湾香肠 dropped into the drain.
I can be a 70 years old grandma though,
Halleluyah I'm alright. :)
Some random idea
Suddenly came out with an idea just now during yumcha with the gang,
its like a light bulb all of a sudden pop out of my mind,
a voice deep inside my heart saying: "this is fun and you should do it!"
So the idea is like this,
I'm going to do some donation to the orphanage,
but not like giving my $ cuz I don't have that much,
still, I can make an effort to help them,
by collecting every orphan's hand print,
and print it on a big piece of fabric,
and arrange it nicely or creatively,
then for every hand print I will describe it in a booklet,
about the child's story,
for instance, their background, personal info, and their wishes for the future,
then frame that piece of fabric with a fine wood frame.
so basically it might look like this,
its like a light bulb all of a sudden pop out of my mind,
a voice deep inside my heart saying: "this is fun and you should do it!"
So the idea is like this,
I'm going to do some donation to the orphanage,
but not like giving my $ cuz I don't have that much,
still, I can make an effort to help them,
by collecting every orphan's hand print,
and print it on a big piece of fabric,
and arrange it nicely or creatively,
then for every hand print I will describe it in a booklet,
about the child's story,
for instance, their background, personal info, and their wishes for the future,
then frame that piece of fabric with a fine wood frame.
so basically it might look like this,
or like this
then this will be sold to any interested public,
the money proceeded from the selling of this frame will be donate to those child in need.
Woah isn't this a brilliant idea?
hehe any helper? :)
Sunday, September 23, 2012
Monday, September 17, 2012
Just received a phone call from mom,
its 7.30 pm, was quite surprise why she call me so early today cuz usually she'll call me at around 10/11 pm,
she asked me whether I've taken my dinner, what did I had for dinner, what am I doing, when is my exam tmr... and those similar questions,
then she said papa eagerly wants to take d phone,
n then d phone passed to papa,
he asked me am I studying, I have taken my dinner (basically the same question mom asked me) and keeps reminding me to sleep as early as 12 am, if not tmr I'm gonna fell asleep during exam, he also asked me to take it easy.
Haha. How sweet is my dad n mom. =)
Suddenly felt like I'm the most blessed child in the world.
yesterday out of sudden uncle gave me some pocket money when he came my home,
that time i was almost got into d car and want to go back campus.
He jokingly says "hey I owed u money rite. here's urs."
Then I was stunned for few seconds, and he insist that I have to take that.
He has always been my guardian, a teacher and a role model to me.
I always seek for his advice about everything I faced.
I am so blessed to have these great and wonderful family members around me,
Today is my day!! :)
<3 br="br" nbsp="nbsp"> *sry papa I aint gonna sleep at 12 am tonight .. >.< love ya all always!
its 7.30 pm, was quite surprise why she call me so early today cuz usually she'll call me at around 10/11 pm,
she asked me whether I've taken my dinner, what did I had for dinner, what am I doing, when is my exam tmr... and those similar questions,
then she said papa eagerly wants to take d phone,
n then d phone passed to papa,
he asked me am I studying, I have taken my dinner (basically the same question mom asked me) and keeps reminding me to sleep as early as 12 am, if not tmr I'm gonna fell asleep during exam, he also asked me to take it easy.
Haha. How sweet is my dad n mom. =)
Suddenly felt like I'm the most blessed child in the world.
yesterday out of sudden uncle gave me some pocket money when he came my home,
that time i was almost got into d car and want to go back campus.
He jokingly says "hey I owed u money rite. here's urs."
Then I was stunned for few seconds, and he insist that I have to take that.
He has always been my guardian, a teacher and a role model to me.
I always seek for his advice about everything I faced.
I am so blessed to have these great and wonderful family members around me,
Today is my day!! :)
<3 br="br" nbsp="nbsp"> *sry papa I aint gonna sleep at 12 am tonight .. >.< love ya all always!
Sunday, August 26, 2012
Problematic
Sometimes I just hate those people whom ignores you when you gives him your sincere advise in hoping that he will not meet dead end and fail hardly but he'll still continue with what he's doing and until the day when shit really happens he'll just smile and say yeah let's face it and you'll feel like isn't I told you so why should I face those shit with you when I'm trying to fix it that time you're not listening these people just being problematic and blindly optimistic and at the end he'll still be carefree without knowing himself had gave trouble to others and by being so self-centered and I'm so gonna shit on your stupid face.
Sunday, August 5, 2012
30 hour famine
今年参加了饥饿三十，
是我的第三次参加了。
第一年张惠妹，
第二年梁静茹，
而隔了一年的第三次，是王力宏。
好开心可以看到这些大牌的歌手，
有机会听现场真的很不错。
但是王力宏这次只唱了一首歌。：/
每次参加，
对我来说都是一种心态的转变，
每次抱着要看歌手的心态去，
但却带着满满的感动回来。
很佩服主办单位，
每次都可以很有次序的安排整个event flow,
也很精心的安排每个意义深远的表演，
看了表演的背后都会让人深思背后的意义。
比如说今年有个表演是罗忆诗带着缅甸的孩子们，
在台上表演合唱。
不知道为什么，
看着看着我的眼眶却湿了，
看着这些缅甸的孩子们，
让我想起之前在荧幕上播的小孩。
在这个住着70亿人口的星球里，
有12%的人口，
即是每七个人中有一个人是每晚饿着肚子睡觉的。
他们大多数都是生活在干枯土地的地区，
由于气候和物价上涨的关系，
使到他们很难栽种任何农作物，
而过着长期营养不良的生活。
在那地区的孩子，
除了婴儿，
所有的孩子都要帮忙家里做家务，
比如5岁的要帮忙家里煮饭，
8岁的要去砍柴，
9岁的担水。
更谈不上什么接受教育了。
如果饱腹和成长都是一个问题，
相比起来接受教育是个很遥远的事情。
希望身边的朋友都可以参加饥饿30，
或领养孩子（依个人能力) ,
帮助有需要的人，
让在地球另一端的孩子，
健康的成长。
Cheers. =)
是我的第三次参加了。
第一年张惠妹，
第二年梁静茹，
而隔了一年的第三次，是王力宏。
好开心可以看到这些大牌的歌手，
有机会听现场真的很不错。
但是王力宏这次只唱了一首歌。：/
每次参加，
对我来说都是一种心态的转变，
每次抱着要看歌手的心态去，
但却带着满满的感动回来。
很佩服主办单位，
每次都可以很有次序的安排整个event flow,
也很精心的安排每个意义深远的表演，
看了表演的背后都会让人深思背后的意义。
比如说今年有个表演是罗忆诗带着缅甸的孩子们，
在台上表演合唱。
不知道为什么，
看着看着我的眼眶却湿了，
看着这些缅甸的孩子们，
让我想起之前在荧幕上播的小孩。
在这个住着70亿人口的星球里，
有12%的人口，
即是每七个人中有一个人是每晚饿着肚子睡觉的。
他们大多数都是生活在干枯土地的地区，
由于气候和物价上涨的关系，
使到他们很难栽种任何农作物，
而过着长期营养不良的生活。
在那地区的孩子，
除了婴儿，
所有的孩子都要帮忙家里做家务，
比如5岁的要帮忙家里煮饭，
8岁的要去砍柴，
9岁的担水。
更谈不上什么接受教育了。
如果饱腹和成长都是一个问题，
相比起来接受教育是个很遥远的事情。
希望身边的朋友都可以参加饥饿30，
或领养孩子（依个人能力) ,
帮助有需要的人，
让在地球另一端的孩子，
健康的成长。
A starving Child.
Everyone could make a difference.
You might be the only hope of their life.
Cheers. =)
Monday, July 30, 2012
ME
I HAVE SO MUCH TO IMPROVE!!!
=(
I FEEL BAD.
JUST CANT STOP COMPARING MYSELF WITH OTHERS.
WHY LIFE IS SO MISERABLE.
Some people says changing yourself to adopt to the environment and to increase your ability to compete.
While some people says don't change yourself cause everyone is perfect in their own way..
I'M CONFUSED...
FEEL BAD THAT I DON'T HAVE ANY OUTSTANDING TALENT OR SOMETHING TO BE PROUD WITH...?? =(
=(
I FEEL BAD.
JUST CANT STOP COMPARING MYSELF WITH OTHERS.
WHY LIFE IS SO MISERABLE.
Some people says changing yourself to adopt to the environment and to increase your ability to compete.
While some people says don't change yourself cause everyone is perfect in their own way..
I'M CONFUSED...
FEEL BAD THAT I DON'T HAVE ANY OUTSTANDING TALENT OR SOMETHING TO BE PROUD WITH...?? =(
Tuesday, July 17, 2012
Oppss :)
Your view on yourself:
Other people find you very interesting, but you are really hiding your true self. Your friends love you because you are a good listener. They'll probably still love you if you learn to be yourself with them.
The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:
You are not looking merely for a girl/boyfriend - you are looking for your life partner. Perhaps you should be more open-minded about who you spend time with. The person you are looking for might hide their charm under their exterior.
Your readiness to commit to a relationship:
You are ready to commit as soon as you meet the right person. And you believe you will pretty much know as soon as you might that person.
The seriousness of your love:
Your have very sensible tactics when approaching the opposite sex. In many ways people find your straightforwardness attractive, so you will find yourself with plenty of dates.
Your views on education
Education is very important in life. You want to study hard and learn as much as you can.
The right job for you:
You have plenty of dream jobs but have little chance of doing any of them if you don't focus on something in particular. You need to choose something and go for it to be happy and achieve success.
How do you view success:
You are afraid of failure and scared to have a go at the career you would like to have in case you don't succeed. Don't give up when you haven't yet even started! Be courageous.
What are you most afraid of:
You are afraid of having no one to rely on in times of trouble. You don't ever want to be unable to take care of yourself. Independence is important to you.
Who is your true self:
You are mature, reasonable, honest and give good advice. People ask for your comments on all sorts of different issues. Sometimes you might find yourself in a dilemma when trapped with a problem, which your heart rather than your head needs to solve.
Saturday, July 14, 2012
Lucky
I just found out a video of him dancing- flash mob in a sch program.
What a lucky day!! LOL
That video was uploaded around dec 2010..
its almost 2 years ago!
At the beginning of video, a bunch of peoples appear and starts dancing,
then I notice someone familiar..
and that's him!
and so I really enjoy the whole video. xD
I guess he was just a foundation student that time,
but he was already the assistant director for the event.
Hmm impressive. =）
Looks cute and innocent. haha
Yummmehhh. <3
PS. I wish I started Uni life earlier so that I won't missed out those activities! Now I have only 2 years left. :( (ppl whom took foundation expose to sch's event earlier.. )
What a lucky day!! LOL
That video was uploaded around dec 2010..
its almost 2 years ago!
At the beginning of video, a bunch of peoples appear and starts dancing,
then I notice someone familiar..
and that's him!
and so I really enjoy the whole video. xD
I guess he was just a foundation student that time,
but he was already the assistant director for the event.
Hmm impressive. =）
Looks cute and innocent. haha
Yummmehhh. <3
PS. I wish I started Uni life earlier so that I won't missed out those activities! Now I have only 2 years left. :( (ppl whom took foundation expose to sch's event earlier.. )
Friday, July 6, 2012
July 2012
Its another busy month here!
30th june- grand finale of IVSC
1st July - hakuna matata PD trip (Golden Key Society)
and some other days with endless meetings.
joined CCIP '12 am in sponsorship division!
kinda excited when imagining I'm gonna deal with ministry of tourism and some government's department and also embassy!
woahhhhhh =P
finally feel like im visible in MMU nowadays cuz always bump into people I know in campus..
joining activities in school wider your network!
yay I like to get to know new friend!
=）
人以群分 means people with same behavior/attitude/mindset will group together.
and that is what I see now.
Time will prove it.
Am worrying cuz recently busy with activites and wasnt listening in class attentively compared to last sem and always snoring during lecture..
ROARRRRR what happen to me???!!!!
Come on WONG CHOOI YEN YOU CAN DO IT!!!!
Score 4.00 in this sem!!!!! cater every subject and events!!!!
KILL THE LAZINESS IN YOU!!!!
_________________________________________________________________________
Tmr thr's a session with Tun Dr.Siti Hasmah.
teehee he's gonna be there. =)
hope we can talk to each other. =p
Good night world and have a wonderful day tomorrow!
30th june- grand finale of IVSC
1st July - hakuna matata PD trip (Golden Key Society)
and some other days with endless meetings.
joined CCIP '12 am in sponsorship division!
kinda excited when imagining I'm gonna deal with ministry of tourism and some government's department and also embassy!
woahhhhhh =P
finally feel like im visible in MMU nowadays cuz always bump into people I know in campus..
joining activities in school wider your network!
yay I like to get to know new friend!
=）
人以群分 means people with same behavior/attitude/mindset will group together.
and that is what I see now.
Time will prove it.
Am worrying cuz recently busy with activites and wasnt listening in class attentively compared to last sem and always snoring during lecture..
ROARRRRR what happen to me???!!!!
Come on WONG CHOOI YEN YOU CAN DO IT!!!!
Score 4.00 in this sem!!!!! cater every subject and events!!!!
KILL THE LAZINESS IN YOU!!!!
_________________________________________________________________________
Tmr thr's a session with Tun Dr.Siti Hasmah.
teehee he's gonna be there. =)
hope we can talk to each other. =p
Good night world and have a wonderful day tomorrow!
Wednesday, June 13, 2012
What a Hectic week!
Its great to take part in Orientation. Its the best experience one could ever had.
I get to know 80 new friends and we called it the OC Family. It feels good to build the bond with peoples.
I get to lead my freshie group, I thought this should be a easy job but it wasn't, especially you have to speak infront of almost 40 peoples confidently *you need to sound convincing too. I gotta admit that on the first day, it was really awkward.. Everyone dont speaks much.. everyone was shy.. it was really hard for my partner and I to do the ice breaking. Although at the end my group's performance dint turn out well.. but I'm still proud that everyone of my freshie get to know each other's name.. cooperate with each other to give their best for the performace.. and we'll be having our very first group gathering! Isnt that amazing.. :))
Besides... joining OC you get to know many people.. especially those active in clubs and society, so next time when you're interested to join any new event it'll be easier to take part cause they know you (or you know them).. *its about relationship after all. =/*
Also..
I get to know international student! yeahoo!!!
My roommates during orientation, they are from Indonesia.. both of them are friendly, humorous and charming!
My neighbour group's OC, from pakistan,
Another OC, frm South Africa.
So on and so forth..
Its so great to know them!! Where I would never have the chance to get in touch with them if I just follow the same routine everyday (sleep-awake-class-sleep).
NOW:
OC - June (DONE)
Club and Society registration week- 18th 19th June (although not officially helping out but I can learn smthg new! )
IVSC- final on 30th june
Golden Key Society - first meeting on 15th june
30 hour famine - August (start now)
Oh yeah gogogo myself!
Engage urself in a busy life so that he'll fade away from your mind!
I get to know 80 new friends and we called it the OC Family. It feels good to build the bond with peoples.
I get to lead my freshie group, I thought this should be a easy job but it wasn't, especially you have to speak infront of almost 40 peoples confidently *you need to sound convincing too. I gotta admit that on the first day, it was really awkward.. Everyone dont speaks much.. everyone was shy.. it was really hard for my partner and I to do the ice breaking. Although at the end my group's performance dint turn out well.. but I'm still proud that everyone of my freshie get to know each other's name.. cooperate with each other to give their best for the performace.. and we'll be having our very first group gathering! Isnt that amazing.. :))
Besides... joining OC you get to know many people.. especially those active in clubs and society, so next time when you're interested to join any new event it'll be easier to take part cause they know you (or you know them).. *its about relationship after all. =/*
Also..
I get to know international student! yeahoo!!!
My roommates during orientation, they are from Indonesia.. both of them are friendly, humorous and charming!
My neighbour group's OC, from pakistan,
Another OC, frm South Africa.
So on and so forth..
Its so great to know them!! Where I would never have the chance to get in touch with them if I just follow the same routine everyday (sleep-awake-class-sleep).
NOW:
OC - June (DONE)
Club and Society registration week- 18th 19th June (although not officially helping out but I can learn smthg new! )
IVSC- final on 30th june
Golden Key Society - first meeting on 15th june
30 hour famine - August (start now)
Oh yeah gogogo myself!
Engage urself in a busy life so that he'll fade away from your mind!
Saturday, June 2, 2012
Oh na na
That feeling coming back again,
It's the worst feeling that can happen on me.
I don't know what to do,
I'm literally stoned.
HEADACHE.
It seems impossible.
What should I do?
Am a completely noobie in this.
PLEASE DON'T BE IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE ELSE.
PLEASE DON'T HAVE SOMEBODY WAITING ON YOU.
It's the worst feeling that can happen on me.
I don't know what to do,
I'm literally stoned.
HEADACHE.
It seems impossible.
What should I do?
Am a completely noobie in this.
PLEASE DON'T BE IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE ELSE.
PLEASE DON'T HAVE SOMEBODY WAITING ON YOU.
Nicole 2.0
After the orientation,
I've learnt a lot, especially my own weaknesses,
one of the main weaknesses is that I don't speak much,
I don't give opinion,
I don't actively involve in conversation.
My God...
That'a a HUGE PROBLEM...
IM DYING INSIDE.
WHYYYYYYY WOULDNT I????!!!!!!
IM SUCH A LOSER.
Hope coming sem will be a better ones..
MUST GRAB EVERY CHANCE AND OPPORTUNITY!!!
I've learnt a lot, especially my own weaknesses,
one of the main weaknesses is that I don't speak much,
I don't give opinion,
I don't actively involve in conversation.
My God...
That'a a HUGE PROBLEM...
IM DYING INSIDE.
WHYYYYYYY WOULDNT I????!!!!!!
IM SUCH A LOSER.
Hope coming sem will be a better ones..
MUST GRAB EVERY CHANCE AND OPPORTUNITY!!!
Saturday, May 19, 2012
Sem break (sem 2)
Oh yeah after a hectic sem my holiday finally came!
Now I'm enjoying officially the first week of my holiday~ since the week before is actually exam week but my subject ended very early.
But...I'm abit regret of taking part in Uni's orientation! arghhh........... my God it's gonna took away my 2 weeks holiday!!!!
I'm gonna miss my holiday so much...... :'(
With this very limited holiday I've enjoy,
My schedule r quite occupied and I've done lots of things ( mostly shopping n yumcha ) =P
10/5 Thursday Shopped in Pyramid with QW
Friday
Saturday IOI- Dark Shadow with Eve n Kun n Serena, n dimsum for second round, then went
Monash for babes dance performance.
Sunday
Monday Dinner with wawa n the girls in Boulevard Kimchihare n station 1 for second round.
Tuesday Pyramid -Dark Shadow AGAIN!! with Piktao n MingHuei. Just in <3 with Barnabas!!
Wednesday Jusco Day- help out mom @ IOI , dinner @ kiku zakura- DAYUMMM
Thurday SS2 dessert with Kun n Hao
Friday
Saturday
Sunday
Monday
Tuesday CHECK IN AT SCHOOL!!! damn... :'( I dun wanna missed my holiday OWH NOOO....
The "blank" day I'll usually stay at home n watch movies,
since I don't ( strong self- control) watch movie/drama at school,
and this is the list of movies I've watch during holiday, (some are the movies I downloaded)
Battleship
Dark Shadow (twice! LOL =D)
Dear John
In time
The devil wears Prada
Valentine's day
House of Harmony and Vengeance (TVB drama)
Dark Shadow:
I actually kind of hoping that Barnabas and Angelique could make a cute couple.. despite their fighting and cursing part.
Johnny depp can always handle his character very well. Normally those weird and attractive character like Edward scissorhands, captain Jack Sparrow, Willy Wonka and Mat Hatter (alice in the wonderland).
Dear John:
Storyline:
While John is on leave in his hometown, he finds Savannah, a college student visiting the town. Although love was unexpected, it doesn't mean they didn't find it. With the knowledge of John having to leave for the army, their love still lives, until his re-signs on due to the 9/11 attack. Troubles invade and their love put on hold. One cannot bear it anymore; can the other?
Amanda Seyfried is one of my favourite actress and I've watched some of her movies, like Red Riding Hood, Chloe, In Time.
Channing Tatum undoubtedly is a hot guy but he's married! oowhhh how I wish he can paired with Amanda Seyfried haha, as far I know he is also the main character playing in The Vow, another romantic movie.
I LOVE MOVIE!!!!
I WANNA GO HOLLYWOOD!!!!!
Now I'm enjoying officially the first week of my holiday~ since the week before is actually exam week but my subject ended very early.
But...I'm abit regret of taking part in Uni's orientation! arghhh........... my God it's gonna took away my 2 weeks holiday!!!!
I'm gonna miss my holiday so much...... :'(
With this very limited holiday I've enjoy,
My schedule r quite occupied and I've done lots of things ( mostly shopping n yumcha ) =P
10/5 Thursday Shopped in Pyramid with QW
Friday
Saturday IOI- Dark Shadow with Eve n Kun n Serena, n dimsum for second round, then went
Monash for babes dance performance.
Sunday
Monday Dinner with wawa n the girls in Boulevard Kimchihare n station 1 for second round.
Tuesday Pyramid -Dark Shadow AGAIN!! with Piktao n MingHuei. Just in <3 with Barnabas!!
Wednesday Jusco Day- help out mom @ IOI , dinner @ kiku zakura- DAYUMMM
Thurday SS2 dessert with Kun n Hao
Friday
Saturday
Sunday
Monday
Tuesday CHECK IN AT SCHOOL!!! damn... :'( I dun wanna missed my holiday OWH NOOO....
The "blank" day I'll usually stay at home n watch movies,
since I don't ( strong self- control) watch movie/drama at school,
and this is the list of movies I've watch during holiday, (some are the movies I downloaded)
Battleship
Dark Shadow (twice! LOL =D)
Dear John
In time
The devil wears Prada
Valentine's day
House of Harmony and Vengeance (TVB drama)
Dark Shadow:
I actually kind of hoping that Barnabas and Angelique could make a cute couple.. despite their fighting and cursing part.
Johnny depp can always handle his character very well. Normally those weird and attractive character like Edward scissorhands, captain Jack Sparrow, Willy Wonka and Mat Hatter (alice in the wonderland).
Dear John:
Storyline:
While John is on leave in his hometown, he finds Savannah, a college student visiting the town. Although love was unexpected, it doesn't mean they didn't find it. With the knowledge of John having to leave for the army, their love still lives, until his re-signs on due to the 9/11 attack. Troubles invade and their love put on hold. One cannot bear it anymore; can the other?
Amanda Seyfried is one of my favourite actress and I've watched some of her movies, like Red Riding Hood, Chloe, In Time.
Channing Tatum undoubtedly is a hot guy but he's married! oowhhh how I wish he can paired with Amanda Seyfried haha, as far I know he is also the main character playing in The Vow, another romantic movie.
I LOVE MOVIE!!!!
I WANNA GO HOLLYWOOD!!!!!
Tuesday, April 10, 2012
Facebook is new trouble
How much time did you spent on stalking, viewing, refreshing, liking, and commenting on facebook per day?
For me, I wasted 3-4 hours (or more?) average everyday to just log in to facebook, and stay there.
Refresh it when I feel bored, reading other's status and click into their profile to see their latest news..
Viewing other's photo, and thinking woah-how-good-if-im-her or why-is-everybody-life-so-fantastic-why-mine-is-so-uninteresting.
I feel like its kinda imbalance sometimes. haha
Whatever..the first rule to live in this planet is, you have to accept that LIFE IS UNFAIR. =//
Back to topic,
with the 3-4 hours I've wasted on facebook doing unproductive things,
I would have use that time to study, to work and earn some money, to get enough rest, to absorb new knowledge, to accompany family and friends, etc etc..
Let's see if one day a person use 4 hours on facebook, one year he/she would waste...1460 hours on facebook!!! and that equals to 60 days!!!
DAMN.... I JUST REALISED THIS TOO. XOXO!!
HOW UNBELIEVABLE!
That means in a year a person log in to facebook continuously for 60 days. =_=' wth..
I think this is how facebook earn money, by consuming everyone's time!
It seems proportional to facebook's market value with the time that people willing to spend on facebook.
IM SO GONNA STOP THIS DAMN BAD HABIT!
XO!
Still like this? xD
For me, I wasted 3-4 hours (or more?) average everyday to just log in to facebook, and stay there.
Refresh it when I feel bored, reading other's status and click into their profile to see their latest news..
Viewing other's photo, and thinking woah-how-good-if-im-her or why-is-everybody-life-so-fantastic-why-mine-is-so-uninteresting.
I feel like its kinda imbalance sometimes. haha
Whatever..the first rule to live in this planet is, you have to accept that LIFE IS UNFAIR. =//
Back to topic,
with the 3-4 hours I've wasted on facebook doing unproductive things,
I would have use that time to study, to work and earn some money, to get enough rest, to absorb new knowledge, to accompany family and friends, etc etc..
Let's see if one day a person use 4 hours on facebook, one year he/she would waste...1460 hours on facebook!!! and that equals to 60 days!!!
DAMN.... I JUST REALISED THIS TOO. XOXO!!
HOW UNBELIEVABLE!
That means in a year a person log in to facebook continuously for 60 days. =_=' wth..
I think this is how facebook earn money, by consuming everyone's time!
It seems proportional to facebook's market value with the time that people willing to spend on facebook.
IM SO GONNA STOP THIS DAMN BAD HABIT!
XO!
Still like this? xD
Friday, April 6, 2012
Okay
I don't know why I likes to think and talk and read things that is related to... business field.
Like story behind of a successful business man... Vincent Tan, YTL, Lim Goh Tong, Lee Shin Cheng... You know I could simply name many of them... I got excited when I heard bout them... (same reaction with people who favourites artist and singer but mine is on business man XP)
These topics always inspired me and kinda movtivating ... and I love that feeling.
Some people adore lengzai and lenglui because of their appearance..perfect voice... and dancing skill.
But I look for more depth, something inner, in one's wisdom, ability, and creativity..
I know its weird right when I got excited to know more about old wisdom man.. =D
SUCCESSIDOLIZATION!
ONE DAY I WILL BE LKE THEM!!
ps. recently goddess went to Europe... how good is her life to get to travel to many places.. she's prettier now...You're still the best. <3
Like story behind of a successful business man... Vincent Tan, YTL, Lim Goh Tong, Lee Shin Cheng... You know I could simply name many of them... I got excited when I heard bout them... (same reaction with people who favourites artist and singer but mine is on business man XP)
These topics always inspired me and kinda movtivating ... and I love that feeling.
Some people adore lengzai and lenglui because of their appearance..perfect voice... and dancing skill.
But I look for more depth, something inner, in one's wisdom, ability, and creativity..
I know its weird right when I got excited to know more about old wisdom man.. =D
SUCCESSIDOLIZATION!
ONE DAY I WILL BE LKE THEM!!
ps. recently goddess went to Europe... how good is her life to get to travel to many places.. she's prettier now...You're still the best. <3
Wednesday, March 28, 2012
Its Assignment Time~
Assignment time~
its the time that I feel like wants to KILL SOMEONE!!!
Please lah please... can you guys be a little bit more independent??
Cant you just TRY, ATLEAST TRY to find the solution for every problem we encounter??
Don't count everything on me... Im not GOD I cant do everything at one time!
you're not a baby so please don't expect me to spoon-feed you!
I KNOW I DESERVE THIS... RIGHT FROM THE MOMENT I AGREE TO BE IN SAME GROUP WITH YOU GUYS. BUNCH OF *tuuttttt* KIDS...
(Sorry for being rude I'm just expressing my emo-ness...)
GROW UP NOW PLEASE!!
its the time that I feel like wants to KILL SOMEONE!!!
Please lah please... can you guys be a little bit more independent??
Cant you just TRY, ATLEAST TRY to find the solution for every problem we encounter??
Don't count everything on me... Im not GOD I cant do everything at one time!
you're not a baby so please don't expect me to spoon-feed you!
I KNOW I DESERVE THIS... RIGHT FROM THE MOMENT I AGREE TO BE IN SAME GROUP WITH YOU GUYS. BUNCH OF *tuuttttt* KIDS...
(Sorry for being rude I'm just expressing my emo-ness...)
GROW UP NOW PLEASE!!
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
Random#4 - what an annoying week!!
Firstly I should be happy bacause I brought new shoes and learn new subject -financial management, which alotsss of ppl complaint that this subject is hell-ly hard. Hmm.. and today I had my first lecture class for Fin.mngmt... seems interesting! Its seems to be highly related with all the stocks and ratio... Im wondering can I apply this directly to buy stocks? heh heh..
Ok.. back to topic,
I am so frussssss!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Why???????
6 reasons behind (atleast), let's see what is it :
1. Text book
Frus level: *
Since its new sem, and I will definitely need to find new text book, and I have some requirement for the text book to ensure I get the best deal! My requirement is:
- second hand
- match with lecturer's book
- photocopy ( since I love to draw n write n sketch on the book!)
omg.... hard to find!
2. Prezzie
Frus level: **
Babe is having her 21st bday...
and we are gear up to think of a prezzie for her... :) its her 21st...
so... I search and browse and finds and look around and scratch my head... and finally like everyone decided....finally.. (if u read this, means all of us have squizze our brain and finally.. agree to buy the ___ ) :) hope you like it.. Happy 21st sweet girl!
3. IVSC
Frus level: *****
Contact campus's PIC... alright... it's actually not a big problem. What's the real problem is, WHY YOU NOT SAY EARLY??? when there's new info need to be update with the PIC of campus, Everyday (perhaps abit exaggerates) I need to update update update them! And you know... day by day... the respond is lesser... lesser and shorter... and finally went missing!! Haih... I guess their OS is: No Problem..OK....Alright...Huh...Not yet finish?... Still got?... What else? ...Beybey... (missing)..
*sigh*
and also many... i would say useless and unhelpful activities going on...like flash mob ( Im forced to dance! and practice every week!) Funding ( do we really get money from the public? ) and promoting in station one ( dun think the uncle aunty and some family will interested in this.. ) ...
Wasting my time!! Feel like quiting but... I know I need to keep to my promise... D: Now I know joining activities in Uni is so... like helping others to reach their target! [perhaps I learn things too... but its time consuming so according to time is money principle its not worth it and I dun get paid too!]
4. Frenemy
Frus level: ***
Ok... thing gets complicated when you reach Uni level... expecially frendship..
But luckily.. I always have very accurate intuition about a person.. like I can feel his/her kindness level. and I know that there's someone around me failed in this criteria... but I'll just keep silence.. as you know..sometimes telling a friend about your feeling towards another friend.. can be dangerous. *evil eyes*
5. (refer to IVSC) IVSC-2
Frus level: *****
I know many of them are not going back home on weekend cuz their hometown is at other state..
and so, some of their activites is on saturday and sunday! No no no... I admit Im a mummy girl and I need to go home every weekend *innocent*.. I skipped some of the activities that are on weekend.. but this week... seriously frus level reached the MAXXXX!!! My timetable for this sem occupy 4 days only... monday to thursday and Im so happy with it, this means Im going back home on thursday after class and coming cyber on monday.. but this week.. first week of new sem I am so upset...
Tuesday- flash mob (skipped thk God) , wednesday - meeting, thursday- workshop ( skipped thk God), Saturday - Seri Kembangan funding, Sunday- Station One promo (skipped thk God)..
And... IF IM GOING TO ALL OF THIS.. mom need to fetch me from cyber on thursday night and fetch me back to cyber on saturday morning, and I'll nid to go back by bus at 3 pm and still hoping Im not late for babe's 21st party (waiting bus in putrajaya is killing, 1 hour min.- 3 hours max) and fetch me back to cyber on monday. Mom is so gonna kill me! However... Still irritates my head now on how to go back cyber on sat morning...
6. Library's super 'EFFICIENT' staff
frus level: *****
I dint get my notes printed as I dun have printer in cyber and tat's why Im going home every weekend to print my notes. and there are 2 subjects nvr upload the lecture notes before Im going back cyber.
So today... I borrow notes from A.K to photocopy d notes .. and Im going library half hour earlier b4 the class start... and you know what?? I queue for half hour.. and there were less than 10 person infront of me that time... and guess what... after half hour I still havent get mine done yet... I am so damn angry due to the EFFECTIVENESS and EFFICIENCY of that malay lady... She can count every piece of paper s.l.o.w... i mean real slow, literally. and after I passed my notes to ask her to print, she put it aside...then people behind me pass her his papers and that super-clever lady processed his first! I was... SO MADDD SO INSANE!! Im already late for class and then she still dare to ignore me! and then I realize my hand is shaking even after I entered class.. DUE TO ANGER!!
（5* is full marks)
OK.... Now I realised how many troubles I confronted this week...
This post is to release my pek-chek-ness.
Please grant me a wonderful thursday tomorrow and solve all my problem..
Thank you..
Ok.. back to topic,
I am so frussssss!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Why???????
6 reasons behind (atleast), let's see what is it :
1. Text book
Frus level: *
Since its new sem, and I will definitely need to find new text book, and I have some requirement for the text book to ensure I get the best deal! My requirement is:
- second hand
- match with lecturer's book
- photocopy ( since I love to draw n write n sketch on the book!)
omg.... hard to find!
2. Prezzie
Frus level: **
Babe is having her 21st bday...
and we are gear up to think of a prezzie for her... :) its her 21st...
so... I search and browse and finds and look around and scratch my head... and finally like everyone decided....finally.. (if u read this, means all of us have squizze our brain and finally.. agree to buy the ___ ) :) hope you like it.. Happy 21st sweet girl!
3. IVSC
Frus level: *****
Contact campus's PIC... alright... it's actually not a big problem. What's the real problem is, WHY YOU NOT SAY EARLY??? when there's new info need to be update with the PIC of campus, Everyday (perhaps abit exaggerates) I need to update update update them! And you know... day by day... the respond is lesser... lesser and shorter... and finally went missing!! Haih... I guess their OS is: No Problem..OK....Alright...Huh...Not yet finish?... Still got?... What else? ...Beybey... (missing)..
*sigh*
and also many... i would say useless and unhelpful activities going on...like flash mob ( Im forced to dance! and practice every week!) Funding ( do we really get money from the public? ) and promoting in station one ( dun think the uncle aunty and some family will interested in this.. ) ...
Wasting my time!! Feel like quiting but... I know I need to keep to my promise... D: Now I know joining activities in Uni is so... like helping others to reach their target! [perhaps I learn things too... but its time consuming so according to time is money principle its not worth it and I dun get paid too!]
4. Frenemy
Frus level: ***
Ok... thing gets complicated when you reach Uni level... expecially frendship..
But luckily.. I always have very accurate intuition about a person.. like I can feel his/her kindness level. and I know that there's someone around me failed in this criteria... but I'll just keep silence.. as you know..sometimes telling a friend about your feeling towards another friend.. can be dangerous. *evil eyes*
5. (refer to IVSC) IVSC-2
Frus level: *****
I know many of them are not going back home on weekend cuz their hometown is at other state..
and so, some of their activites is on saturday and sunday! No no no... I admit Im a mummy girl and I need to go home every weekend *innocent*.. I skipped some of the activities that are on weekend.. but this week... seriously frus level reached the MAXXXX!!! My timetable for this sem occupy 4 days only... monday to thursday and Im so happy with it, this means Im going back home on thursday after class and coming cyber on monday.. but this week.. first week of new sem I am so upset...
Tuesday- flash mob (skipped thk God) , wednesday - meeting, thursday- workshop ( skipped thk God), Saturday - Seri Kembangan funding, Sunday- Station One promo (skipped thk God)..
And... IF IM GOING TO ALL OF THIS.. mom need to fetch me from cyber on thursday night and fetch me back to cyber on saturday morning, and I'll nid to go back by bus at 3 pm and still hoping Im not late for babe's 21st party (waiting bus in putrajaya is killing, 1 hour min.- 3 hours max) and fetch me back to cyber on monday. Mom is so gonna kill me! However... Still irritates my head now on how to go back cyber on sat morning...
6. Library's super 'EFFICIENT' staff
frus level: *****
I dint get my notes printed as I dun have printer in cyber and tat's why Im going home every weekend to print my notes. and there are 2 subjects nvr upload the lecture notes before Im going back cyber.
So today... I borrow notes from A.K to photocopy d notes .. and Im going library half hour earlier b4 the class start... and you know what?? I queue for half hour.. and there were less than 10 person infront of me that time... and guess what... after half hour I still havent get mine done yet... I am so damn angry due to the EFFECTIVENESS and EFFICIENCY of that malay lady... She can count every piece of paper s.l.o.w... i mean real slow, literally. and after I passed my notes to ask her to print, she put it aside...then people behind me pass her his papers and that super-clever lady processed his first! I was... SO MADDD SO INSANE!! Im already late for class and then she still dare to ignore me! and then I realize my hand is shaking even after I entered class.. DUE TO ANGER!!
（5* is full marks)
OK.... Now I realised how many troubles I confronted this week...
This post is to release my pek-chek-ness.
Please grant me a wonderful thursday tomorrow and solve all my problem..
Thank you..
Tuesday, March 6, 2012
咎由自取
其实很多事情
都是咎由自取的
早知如今何必当初呢？
早知付出多一点就可以拿到更好的成绩
早知主动点就不会错过生命中的挚爱而遗憾终身
早知不抽烟就不会生病...
其实我们早知，却任由情况恶化而不去改善/无动于衷，
是因为自己自以为是的以为，还有时间，还有机会的，
就不去做任何行动，
所以结果是怎样，是不是一个人必须要附上很大的责任呢？
有时某人发生了某些事，
我会想，
某人你早知_何必_呢？
不能怪别人啊！
为何还要抱怨连连呢？？
种因必得果啊！
对于我自己，
同样的，
审判的想法也是丝毫不留情的，
上课时打瞌睡，导致有些功课不会做，好吧我付出多几倍的时间温习。
身体越来越HUGE，导致很多衣服穿不下，好吧！要吃的话不要想身材要身材的话不要想吃！
生活圈子越来越小，导致眼界越来越窄，好吧！检讨自己！要不努力主动认识人要不继续呆在自己的小小世界！
不认为现在的我过得很好，我不符合心中的要求。
无论是外表，能力，EQ，生活圈子，还有（非常）很大的进步空间，
如果以后要达到目标，
若现在的情况过多5年，
会更难达到了。
在书本读过这样的内容：如果你要成功，周围就要有成功的朋友，相反地，如果你要成为*vulgar words*，请让*vulgar words*们围绕着你！
简单的说一句，近墨者黑！
再继续下去，
XXX你真的会咎由自取！！！！
(I'm saying this to myself.)
都是咎由自取的
早知如今何必当初呢？
早知付出多一点就可以拿到更好的成绩
早知主动点就不会错过生命中的挚爱而遗憾终身
早知不抽烟就不会生病...
其实我们早知，却任由情况恶化而不去改善/无动于衷，
是因为自己自以为是的以为，还有时间，还有机会的，
就不去做任何行动，
所以结果是怎样，是不是一个人必须要附上很大的责任呢？
有时某人发生了某些事，
我会想，
某人你早知_何必_呢？
不能怪别人啊！
为何还要抱怨连连呢？？
种因必得果啊！
对于我自己，
同样的，
审判的想法也是丝毫不留情的，
上课时打瞌睡，导致有些功课不会做，好吧我付出多几倍的时间温习。
身体越来越HUGE，导致很多衣服穿不下，好吧！要吃的话不要想身材要身材的话不要想吃！
生活圈子越来越小，导致眼界越来越窄，好吧！检讨自己！要不努力主动认识人要不继续呆在自己的小小世界！
不认为现在的我过得很好，我不符合心中的要求。
无论是外表，能力，EQ，生活圈子，还有（非常）很大的进步空间，
如果以后要达到目标，
若现在的情况过多5年，
会更难达到了。
在书本读过这样的内容：如果你要成功，周围就要有成功的朋友，相反地，如果你要成为*vulgar words*，请让*vulgar words*们围绕着你！
简单的说一句，近墨者黑！
再继续下去，
XXX你真的会咎由自取！！！！
(I'm saying this to myself.)
孤单
有时就算朋友家人都在身边，
那是来自我心底里的自负和自怜在作祟。
还是不免会感到孤单。
比如说，
很多时候，在做着一些事情时，会遇到瓶颈，然后会发现到，
爸爸妈妈不能帮到你，
朋友也不能帮到你，又或者...袖手旁观(?)，
唯一的办法只有靠自己。
这时会有一种“顶天立地我不需要别人我也可以做到的”自信，
但同时却感到“好孤单原来没有一个人可以帮我”的悲哀。
那是来自我心底里的自负和自怜在作祟。
PS：我不喜欢最近我在做的一件事（虽然之前很拼命的认为必须做一些什么所以选了此事），我应该放弃吗？突然发觉，这不是我以后会做/要做的..之前的想法是要认识更多人和打发时间...但现在觉得太annoying了！应该半途而弃还是死死也要做完它呢？？
真烦恼。
真烦恼。
Saturday, March 3, 2012
21件25歲要開始做的事
勇敢追夢
1. 列出你人生中非做不可的「待辦事項」，開始一項項完成。
2. 嘗試一個人出國旅行，跟自己對話，照顧自己，傾聽心裡的聲音。
3. 至少進一次大公司，不一定是規模大的企業，而是在各行各業中，口碑和風評領先的公司。因為大公司的福利以及制度較完善，並可趁機累積相關工作資歷，以及人脈關係。也許中年之後，你會想要創業，資金、經驗和資源外，人脈是不可或缺的幫手。
4. 好好品嘗一次跌到谷底的感受。把自己逼到牆角時，往往是把人生看得最清楚的時候；唯有越過層層荊棘，才可能超越自我。
財富自由
6. 對自己好好進行一次全盤財務診斷。問自己：真正讓你幸福的生活方式是什麼？有人喜歡住鄉下，有人卻想要住豪宅，想在短時間創造高財富，就必須承擔更高的風險。
7. 再問自己理想的生活方式，需要準備多少錢才夠？扣除現有資產存量，還需要準備多少？設定好目標後，才開始討論合適的投資工具。
8. 切勿「負債投資」；若有負債，應先擬定償還計劃，先理債、再理財。
9. 一切都得從「存錢」做起，否則都是空談。
10. 想要存錢，先從「記帳」開始。這是基本功，只要堵住不經意花掉的金錢，一定可以慢慢累積出投資的本金。
11. 辛苦存錢的同時，一定要慎防財務漏洞，比如人云亦云地亂買股票、辦房貸，甚至亂刷卡或用現金卡借錢。其中聽明牌買股票往往被套在高點；房貸利率的差別往往一年達數萬元；信用卡是很多現代人的理財盲點，也是現代人的財務殺手，試想你有錢放在銀行，拿到的是少少的利息，當這些錢被銀行經由信用卡或現金卡借出去，利差達10倍以上，這樣的錢當然不能借來用。
12. 既然理財是門學問，平時就應該做功課，無論從總體經濟，到世界趨勢，都應該有所涉獵。不要一昧相信「理財專家」或「股票名師」會替你帶來一夕致富的好運。
13. 最後，想要獲得財富自由，成為理想中的有錢人，就要有「成功致富」的信心。幾乎所有成功的投資人，都有一套自己的投資觀念，自律且具耐心，最重要的是，他們目標明確。
掌握未來
14. 要自由地揮灑未來，第一件要做的事是──建立生活的秩序。有秩序的人，通常能夠成就你意想不到的事。讓其他事情可以順利完成，便有更多時間享受「自由」。
15. 改變，從專心工作開始。面對你正在做的事，集中注意力，才能加快完成速度。
16. 養成固定時間睡覺和起床。不要再用種種理由佔用睡覺的寶貴時間，不要讓事情一拖再拖，這樣你將有更多時間補足精力。
17. 正確的飲食、運動習慣能讓身體保持清醒，沒有負擔。應該讓身體在35歲以前，都保持在最佳狀態。
18. 只有不斷學習才能保證競爭力。管理大師彼得‧杜拉克（PeterF.Drucker）說，你的知識和經驗，都是你的新財富。懂得學習，一半靠好奇心，一半靠自律。杜拉克即使再忙，每天也會擠出3～5小時讀書，唯有保持學習的自律，才能獲得一生受用的知識財富。
19. 在日常生活中，實踐「懶」人的智慧，用最少時間，達到最佳目的，且運用更舒適輕鬆的方法。例如：妥善保存隨手買的小配件，收納在同一個地方，要使用的時候就不會找不到。發展自己的懶人智慧，當事情忙亂起來，就不會一團糟，生活也能更有品質。
20. 學會說不。「拒絕」是一門藝術，做個心胸開闊、進退有禮的人，同時也要有自己的原則，才能過得自在、開心。
21. 盡可能讓生活豐富。嘗試著用一個圓圈，平分成6個部份，在每個部份寫上家庭、工作、經濟狀況、精神追求、健康、智慧，提醒自己人生不是只有工作的上班時間，與下班後的日常生活；盡可能讓自己的每個面向不斷拓展、延伸。
35歲前，學會讓自己輕鬆地應對一切，你就可以享受成功、自由的人生。
Wednesday, February 15, 2012
未来
其实很羡慕他们，
小小年纪 却已经如此成功
不是说每个人都有自己的天赋吗？
如果早发现 早发掘 是不是就会成功了呢？
我已经时日无多了啦
有没有一种东西
可以让我知道我的天赋在哪？
I'm thirst for success,
and hunger for achievements.
昨天看到一句话，
让那个我燃起了小小希望，
Hard work beats talent when talent doesn't work hard.
所以说有天赋不必然成功，但是努力就会成功？
:)
#3 Random
Okay... today is another beautiful day~ =)
Tomorrow I can gao dim my last paper! Which is Msian study~ hoho a pass/fail subject which means Im gonna read one or two chapter only to pass since my coursework mark is already 40++. Muahahaha.
Never update my wish list since decades ago...
So here's the new ones!! =D
- I wanna go Taylor Swift's concert!!!!!
- Travel around d world!!!
- Spreading my love!! ( not sure how but im hoping thr's a way haha )
- Establish a organization.... to spread d Fun!!!
- Buy an aeroplane. hahaha so this'll make things easier since i wanna travel here n thr.
And today....
What Im going to do is,
-take a nap ( since i nvr sleep since ytd 4pm, and its 1.30 pm now! )
-study msian study paper
-go to zixin n jess's hse, sleepover!! hohoho
-masak masak d choco jelly~! =P
Recently, addicted to
-Katy perry's part of me
-safe and sound-Taylor Swift
:)
Im gonna have a good good life!! C:
Tomorrow I can gao dim my last paper! Which is Msian study~ hoho a pass/fail subject which means Im gonna read one or two chapter only to pass since my coursework mark is already 40++. Muahahaha.
Never update my wish list since decades ago...
So here's the new ones!! =D
- I wanna go Taylor Swift's concert!!!!!
- Travel around d world!!!
- Spreading my love!! ( not sure how but im hoping thr's a way haha )
- Establish a organization.... to spread d Fun!!!
- Buy an aeroplane. hahaha so this'll make things easier since i wanna travel here n thr.
And today....
What Im going to do is,
-take a nap ( since i nvr sleep since ytd 4pm, and its 1.30 pm now! )
-study msian study paper
-go to zixin n jess's hse, sleepover!! hohoho
-masak masak d choco jelly~! =P
Recently, addicted to
-Katy perry's part of me
-safe and sound-Taylor Swift
:)
Im gonna have a good good life!! C:
Friday, February 10, 2012
random #2
- 那天晚上，圖書館外的月亮好圓好亮。回宿舍的時候，全部旁邊的路燈都沒亮，可是我低頭卻看見自己的影子，才發現是月亮的光！然後還有很多很多星星...真美麗的夜晚。如果每顆星星都能讓我許一個願多好。:-)
- 考場外，難得出現百年難得一見的龍蛇出巢人山人海現象...勁壯觀！看到此難得一見的現象，所有考試煩惱統統拋諸腦後！
-第一次，有著不到黃河心不死的精神！感覺自己又向前踏了一步！:) keep it up yo.
- 昨天看著天色慢慢變亮的感覺很好！眾人皆睡我獨醒！所以這天是我最早插旗的啦！winner of the day!
- 今天是美好的一天！多謝然哥哥帶我去alamanda吃mum mum，陪我可愛的朋友逛cold storage carrefour. Had a great time with you! This is most probably last outing of us after you fly off. You have always been a great and awesome friend of mine. Life is no fun without you. 希望我帶給你的回憶是溫暖的！希望你想到我的時候會有好心情吧！致這位與我共同成長的朋友，一路順風，前途無量，夢想成真！<3
- 我愛Taylor Swift的歌！Almost every song of them! 我要去Taylor Swift的演唱會！(Avril Lavigne 的也很愛！yay 18th feb here i come~~!! )
- 雖然不確定明天去的seminar是什麼topic，不過據我所知是關於doing business之類的。希望有收穫！:>
- 有理想在的地方，地狱就是天堂。有希望在的地方，痛苦也成歡樂。
- 考場外，難得出現百年難得一見的龍蛇出巢人山人海現象...勁壯觀！看到此難得一見的現象，所有考試煩惱統統拋諸腦後！
-第一次，有著不到黃河心不死的精神！感覺自己又向前踏了一步！:) keep it up yo.
- 昨天看著天色慢慢變亮的感覺很好！眾人皆睡我獨醒！所以這天是我最早插旗的啦！winner of the day!
- 今天是美好的一天！多謝然哥哥帶我去alamanda吃mum mum，陪我可愛的朋友逛cold storage carrefour. Had a great time with you! This is most probably last outing of us after you fly off. You have always been a great and awesome friend of mine. Life is no fun without you. 希望我帶給你的回憶是溫暖的！希望你想到我的時候會有好心情吧！致這位與我共同成長的朋友，一路順風，前途無量，夢想成真！<3
- 我愛Taylor Swift的歌！Almost every song of them! 我要去Taylor Swift的演唱會！(Avril Lavigne 的也很愛！yay 18th feb here i come~~!! )
- 雖然不確定明天去的seminar是什麼topic，不過據我所知是關於doing business之類的。希望有收穫！:>
- 有理想在的地方，地狱就是天堂。有希望在的地方，痛苦也成歡樂。
Thursday, January 5, 2012
Dreamer
I'm just a dreamer who dreams all the time.
Without action. But with strong will.
How funny is that.
So useless.
Every condition remains unchanged.
How long till the day, that I'll be able to breakthrough?
Dunno why I feel like there are not much time left...
It's really like grinding my passion awayyy...day by day..
Is like fight for something... but i dont even know specifically what I'm fighting for.
btw..Recently one thing that gave me confident is my math score 28.5 out of 30. heh :) Keep going on! :))
STAY STRONG. BE PREPARED. :)))
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